Introduction: What's important for a happy engagement period
You've accepted a proposal and are enjoying happy days. But at the same time, are you feeling anxious, thinking, "What should I do next?"
This blog will provide information to help **alleviate the anxieties of such brides-to-be**.
By reading this article, you will understand the flow from proposal to marriage registration, allowing you to proceed with preparations without omissions.
We will also introduce a concrete to-do list and points to note for smooth progress, so please read until the end.
With this, you'll be perfect! Let's start the best wedding preparations with no regrets!
[Immediately after the proposal] What to do first
After accepting a proposal, start by sharing the happy news with those around you.
Reporting to and greeting parents
After the proposal, report to your parents as soon as possible. If possible, meeting them in person to report is best.
- Timing of report: Preferably within one month after the proposal.
- Scheduling an appointment: Contact the partner's parents in advance to make an appointment.
- Attire and souvenir: Aim for clean and neat attire, and bring a souvenir that your parents will appreciate.
- What to say: Convey your sincere intention to "please let us marry" as a couple.
Discussing engagement and wedding rings
Take your time to discuss rings, a symbol of your love, during this period.
- What to decide: Whether to purchase, design, material, and budget.
- Points to note: There may be differences in values and preferences. It is important to **discuss calmly until both of you are satisfied**.
- Narrow down from many options and find something that both of you feel is "the one!"
Exchanging engagement gifts
An "engagement gift" is an item given as a souvenir other than the engagement ring.
- Examples: Watches, necklaces, travel, etc.
- Key point: Similar to rings, choose a gift that will last and **deepen your bond** as a couple.
[Until marriage registration] Starting full-scale wedding preparations
From here, full-scale wedding preparations begin. Let's proceed one step at a time.
Deciding on the marriage registration date
The marriage registration date will be a special anniversary for both of you.
- Popular registration dates: Auspicious days (such as Taian), your anniversaries, days with good語呂合わせ (goroawase - wordplay).
- Points to note: The marriage registration office may not be open every day. **Confirm with the office** in advance and prepare the necessary documents.
Preparing for family introductions and betrothal ceremony (yuinō)
This is an important opportunity for both families to get to know each other.
- Purpose: To get to know and deepen bonds between each other's families.
- Preparation: Selecting the venue, date, attire, and souvenir.
- Yuinō (betrothal ceremony): Whether to hold a yuinō or not should be discussed and agreed upon by both families in advance.
Planning the wedding ceremony
If you are holding a wedding ceremony, preparations begin in earnest around this time.
- Considering venues: First, request information or attend bridal fairs at venues that interest you.
- Budget: Setting a rough budget will make subsequent planning easier.
- Season: Consider several candidate seasons for when you would like to hold your wedding.
[Procedures] Public procedures not to forget
Towards marriage registration, also proceed with public procedures.
Submitting the marriage registration form
By submitting the marriage registration form, you officially become a legally married couple.
- Required documents: Marriage registration form, identification documents, family register (if submitting outside your registered domicile), etc.
- Key point: The marriage registration form requires signatures from two witnesses. Ask your parents or friends early.
Name and address change procedures
After marriage registration, you need to change your name and address.
- List of procedures: Driver's license, passport, bank accounts, credit cards, various insurances, etc.
- Efficient approach: It is reassuring to **create a checklist** to ensure no changes are missed.
[Problem Solving] Frequently asked questions during the engagement period
How long is the "engagement period"?
There is no fixed duration for the "engagement period." It's important to set a period that both of you are comfortable with. The **average duration is said to be about one year**.
Should we live together during the engagement period?
Living together has benefits such as understanding the division of household chores and differences in living habits, but also drawbacks such as reduced private time. Discuss thoroughly as a couple and decide after understanding each other's values.
From proposal to wedding, how do I decide on the overall balance of accessories?
Many people probably think, "It's a once-in-a-lifetime wedding, so I want to be particular about accessories too." For wedding accessories, it is important to **coordinate them with your dress and hairstyle for an overall look**.
By carefully choosing accessories during the engagement period, you can be confident and shine as the star on your big day. Also, by choosing "lifetime items" that can be used even after the wedding, you can make a choice without regrets.
The **RYONA SONG Bespoke Service** is also recommended, where you can directly consult with a designer about everything from choosing wedding accessories to the overall coordination on the day.
They will be a strong ally who will help solve the bride's concerns.
[Summary] To have an engagement period without regrets
The engagement period is an important preparation time for both of you.
Refer to this list and proceed step by step at **your own pace**, without rushing.
I sincerely hope you have a wonderful wedding preparation period.
Also, check out this blog! →
"[Complete Guide] How to Avoid Regrets with Wedding Accessory Total Coordination"
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